A BROTHERS JOURNEY; SURVIVING A CHILDHOOD OF ABUSE

Richard B. Pelzer

• Hardcover: 272 pages
• ISBN-10: 0446533688
• ISBN-13: 978-0446533683

In this gripping, deeply troubling memoir, a follow-up to his brother David's bestselling A Child Called It, Pelzer reveals the unyielding suffering he says he experienced at the hands of his depraved mother growing up in the 1970s. Once David, the elder of the two, was removed from the household, the author, by this account, became the target of their mother's alcohol-induced rage. As Pelzer details his outward struggle to survive—learning to fall asleep with his eyes open, for example—and his internal efforts to understand and rise above his circumstances, he assaults readers with the graphic facts, told in surprisingly matter-of-fact language, about being beaten bloody for falling asleep when he was supposed to be awake, and being forbidden to bathe and forced to eat scraps from a dog bowl. Family members (including Pelzer's father), neighbors and teachers were aware of the abuse but did nothing to help, and Pelzer credits outsiders, especially his friend Ben, with finally "allowing" him to see himself more clearly. By looking back at—and then releasing—the image of the skinny, red-haired boy who wanted nothing more than his mother's love, Pelzer discovers his true spirit, which he shares courageously and selflessly here in the hope of healing himself, as well as raising awareness of and preventing child abuse.

I was extremely disappointed with this memoir. After reading Dave Pelzers story, I expected much more from his brother. This was a difficult read, as I felt many times like giving up on the story. I managed to make it the whole way through in hopes that its likability would increase however in the end was just thankful to have gotten through each page.

Finished: February 4, 2010